The Advice Collector includes field-tested openers from 10,000+ real-world interactions, but the one that works best is simple: "Hey, I'm collecting life advice from total strangers in my journal - I know it's random, but would you mind writing something in my journal?" That's it. It works more often than you'd think.
It happens, but it almost never feels personal once you've done it a few times. A no usually means someone is tired, rushed, or in the middle of something. The bonus training videos cover exactly how to handle rejection without it knocking you off your feet.
No. Most of our best stories come from people who considered themselves shy (including our founder, Will - talking to strangers used to be his BIGGEST fear). The journal does the heavy lifting: it gives the stranger context, something to do (write), and a clear ask. You don't have to "be" a social person.
You decide, based on the opener you choose. Approach people who may have the answers to your biggest questions, and let your curiosity guide you.
- Career pivots.
- Love regrets.
- Health habits they swear by.
- Things their own kids don't know.
Some of it will make you laugh. Some of it will stick with you for years.
It might be the best thing you can bring on a trip. Strangers in new cities, airports, hostels, and cafés tend to be more open. Some of the most memorable entries we've ever seen came from complete strangers in foreign countries.
5+ short videos with Will - who has approached 10,000+ strangers - walking you through the exact process: what to say, who to ask, how to handle a no, how to keep the conversation going, and the mindset shifts that make this feel natural fast.
Pocket-sized. Small enough to fit in a jacket pocket, bag, or back pocket. Designed to go with you everywhere.
30 entry pages, plus intro pages, two reflection check-ins (at entries 10 and 20), and a closing section to capture your biggest lessons.
Currently available in butter yellow and sage green.